Shopping Ban: Week 11

2009-10-23 at 19-04-33

Striped Cotton Pajama Pants  $13 (Target)

I realize that this is certainly not the most thrilling shopping ban post ever.  But I’m sticking to my budget, I didn’t have a lot of shopping time this week, and this is what I bought.  Somehow, between last winter and now, I managed to give all my long pajama pants to Goodwill.  The weather is finally starting to get a bit cold, and shorts and capris just weren’t cutting it when I wanted to lounge around the house in the evening.  I still had $20 of free money left for October, so I went to Target, and picked these out.  And I love them!  So soft, so comfy, the color goes with everything.  I’ve been lounging around the house in these almost every night since I got them.  Which makes me think that I might get a second pair in a different color, so I don’t have to do laundry all the time.  That leaves me with $7 of free money and $15 of ban money.  So what am I going to do today: go thrifting!  You’ll see what I find next week.

Shopping Ban: Weeks 9 & 10

At the end of week 8, I had $15 in free money left.  To that can be added $50 of free money for October, plus $30 of ban money for two weeks.  Let’s see how I spent it.

4015493856_16c5139dbf

Lush Brown Hornet Dress: $36

The day before my trip to California, I stopped at a boutique (The Velvet Rope) near my work on an impulse.  Unfortunately they don’t have a website yet, but I did find an article on the store’s opening.  So if you’re ever in the Brandon/Valrico area, check it out.  I was surprised to find several reasonably priced items in the store, along with some really great fancy dresses that were a bit pricier.  The second I tried on this dress, I fell in love.  The fit is divine, the viscose/rayon blend is super soft, and the details make me feel like a Greek goddess.  I do wish that the color was a bit more vibrant and that the length was slightly longer, but I can live with those things.  This $36 came from the $65 of free money I had, leaving me with $29 of free money.

earrings

Efy Tal Earrings  $36 (on sale)

One day while I was in Encinitas, CA, me and some of the folks walked to a nearby Farmer’s Market.  I wish we had markets like this in Tampa.  It had so many cool vendors, and tons of fresh, delicious produce.  One of the vendors was Efy Tal Jewelry, being manned by the San Diego artist herself.  I couldn’t pass up these gorgeous earrings, and I’ve worn them several times since.  I love getting to support handmade artisans, and it’s even better when you actually get to meet them in person.  Since they’re handmade, I feel that it’s okay to use my ban money towards these.  That takes all $30 of the ban money I had from two weeks, plus $6 of free money, leave me with $23 in free money.

4015493846_4f32394e7c

Blu Heaven Blouse  $0.50!

4015493844_71351f459d

Coyote Corduroy Blazer  $0.50!

4015493840_48fd433124

Gap Chino Skirt  $0.50!

At this wonderful Farmer’s Market, they also had a garage sale to benefit a group of six graders earning money for camp.  I scored these amazing pieces for a mere 50 cents each!  Albeit, the blouse has to be worn with something layered underneath, the blazer is snug when buttoned, and the skirt will likely need alterations since it’s quite tight.  I’m still super happy with them for the price.  There’s a few other items too, but they need some alterations, and may not work at all.  Grand total for what I bought (including items not shown): $3.  Take that from my free money, and I’m left with $20 of free money and no ban money.  I think I made out pretty well.

Next week I’ll recap my California trip in full, so stay tuned!

Not Buying It (Book Review)

Not buying it

Not Buying It: My Year Without Shopping

While I did buy something this week, I didn’t have time to take any pictures before leaving for San Diego.  So instead, I thought I’d review a book that I read a few months ago, that relates to my shopping ban.

The author, Judith Levine, decided to go on a full-on shopping ban for an entire year – not just clothes, but everything that isn’t considered a necessity.  It’s interesting to see what she defines as needs vs. wants (for instance, fancy varieties of rice are considered needs, but q-tips and wine are considered wants).  It’s really interesting to watch her journey, especially since she lives for part of the year in New York City, which is one of the most consumer driven cities in the world.

Without spoiling too much, I also found it interesting that the two times she broke down and broke her ban, she bought clothes.  She doesn’t come to the book from a fashion perspective per se, but she makes some keen observations about feeling like all the current styles are passing her by, with her unable to participate in them.

Her ban is far more extreme than anything I will probably ever do.  But I love thinking and learning about society and how it ticks (my Bachelors was in Sociology) so this book really appeals to me.  Plus, it lets you discover what the experience of not shopping for a year is like, without the pain and withdrawal of actually doing it.  I highly recommend this book for anyone curious at taking a closer, personal look at consumerism and it’s effect in America.

(I’ll catch you up on what I bought in my regular shopping ban post next week.)

Shopping Ban: Week 8

I’m discovering that I’m really focusing on accessories right now during this ban.  They’re generally more affordable than garments, and they can work to create completely new looks with pieces that you already have.  So here’s what I bought this week:

headband

Headband from Anthropologie  $20

$20 might seem like a lot for a headband (and it was on sale too!)  But I really like this one a lot, and  it’s actually reversible, so it’s really like I’m getting two headbands for $10 each.

headband2

Same headband reversed

tights

Hue Tights in Cosmos  $12.50 at Anthropologie

It’s no secret that I love tights, despite the fact that it doesn’t really get that cold in Florida.  Most of my tights are in warm or neutral colors, so I thought that a blue pair would add a little more versatility to my wardrobe.

Those purchases both came from the $50 free day I have budgeted each month, and it only added up to $32.50.  That left some additional free day money, as well as the $33.50 in ban money I had from not buying anything the week before.  $3.50 was still left from week 6, $15 from week 7, and $15 from this week.  So I bought something that I’d been craving on Etsy for awhile.

necklace

Amethyst Necklace from RedChair $36

I’ve wanted to buy from RedChair for awhile, and I’ve been craving an amethyst necklace lately.  So when I realized that this one was within budget, I snatched it up.  And I love it.  I need more purple in my life, and this is a good start.

So that used up all of my ban money, plus $2.50 from the free day money.  That leaves me with no ban money carrying over to next week, and $15 in free money carrying over.  This is good, because I’m going to San Diego for a family wedding next week, so I’ll have a little more free money available in case I find something I absolutely love while I’m there.

(Note: I’m feeling a bit under the weather today, but I will try to post the winner of the leggings contest by the end of the weekend.  Hopefully today)

Shopping Ban: Week 7

For those on a budget, I highly recommend discovering if there is an exchange type store in your area.  It’s kind of like a consignment shop.  The way it works at a local store here, Revolve Clothing Exchange, is that you bring in clothes that you don’t wear anymore, they pick what they want to buy from you, and then you get instant store credit!  I love this, because I am constantly weeding my closet, and it lets me do a bit of shopping without hurting my wallet.  I took in quite a few items last week, and got an amazing $62 store credit!  So here’s what I got without spending money this week:

denim jacket

Express Denim Jacket = $12, free with store credit

I have been wanting a denim jacket for ages, but I could never find one that I really liked.  While this one still isn’t absolutely perfect, the fit is good, and I love the nice dark wash.  This will be going into heavy rotation very soon.

leather jacket

BB Dakota Leather Jacket = $20, free with store credit

This was absolutely the find of the day.  If I had only bought this, I still would have been super happy.  I really wanted to get a nice leather jacket before fall, but they were always either too expensive, too boxy or too biker chic.  This brown suede one is perfect, fits beautifully and compliments my brown hair.  I will have to get it cleaned, since it has a few spots, but that’s not too bad, since I got it for free.

pleather clutch

Tan Pleather Clutch = $6, free with store credit

I really wanted to get a nice clutch to take to the wedding I’m going to next month, but I can’t really afford the super nice leather ones I really want on Etsy.  Since this one was free, and it was a color that will go with my dress, I went ahead and got it anyhow.  It will probably be replaced with something nicer (and in real leather) when money is a little less tight.

So I didn’t actually use any ban money on all those purchases, since I had so much store credit.  I did use some ban money to buy a lovely necklace on Etsy, but I’ll feature it next week, since I haven’t received it in the mail yet.

Shopping Ban: Week 6

scarf

Magenta Vintage Vera Silk Scarf  = $8 at local antique shop

(it’s much more vibrant than the image lets on)

Well, one thing I’ve learned is that it’s a lot easier to stick to a shopping ban when you are broke.  When my bank account is extremely low, I don’t really feel any temptation to shop and over-spend.  Rather, I feel more like staying home and working with what I already have – fixing items that need alteration, working on sewing projects, etc.

However, I have noticed that when I am out and about and need to kill time before an appointment, I will usually go into a store and browse.  Sometimes this will get me into trouble with impulse buys.  This week it wasn’t too bad though.

I decided to kill some time this week by browsing in a local antique shop.  I find these particularly fun to browse, because while I love looking at antiques, I will rarely buy anything.  I checked out the jewelry section first, but most of it was way out of my price range (including a gorgeous $39 jade necklace).  Then I proceded to look at the rest of the shop.  I figured I wouldn’t get anything, but then I had to stop and check out the 50% off section, because a beautiful burst of magenta caught my eye.  That magenta happened to be a gorgeous silk Vera scarf, on sale for a mere $8.  While money was quite tight this week, I could handle $8.  I’ve been wanting to add a greater variety of colors to my wardrobe, and magenta is one I particularly like.  The size and shape of the scarf are perfect too.  It’s versatile enough to be worn as a headband, around the neck or on a purse.  I also really love the fact that it’s a solid color, because most of my scarves are patterned.

This was all I bought this week, and I had $11.50 to spend.  This means that $3.50 will carry over to next week.  Woo-hoo!

September Budget

budget2

For those of you who have been following my blog for awhile, you know about the budgeting ups and downs I have been going through.  Now that I’m working full time, I’m still having to really watch how I spend, because I’m not in a permanent position yet, and thus money is still very tight (even more so than before, since I’m no longer relying on student loans to subsidize my living).

I’ve re-arranged my September budget spreadsheet to help reflect these changes, and I like the new version better.  I’ve organized it so that all of my general expenses are at the top, with shopping ban and discretionary expenses at the bottom.  The general section is made up of absolute necessities (rent, utilities, etc), regular monthly expenses (Netflix subscription, YMCA membership, etc) and necessities that are flexible (toiletries, household items, etc).  I think that having things organized in this way will help me to focus my spending more on what I actually need, and spend less on things that I can do without.

I also added a section to Necessities for loan/credit payment.  I want to get my student loans and my credit card paid off, and while it may take awhile, if I can at least set aside $100 every month, I’ll be making progress.  I’ll try to make it more if I can.  More and more I’m beginning to feel that credit is an evil thing, because it lures you into a false sense of security, then makes you more and more dependent on it when you face the reality of how much income you actually have.  At least, that’s how I feel about my student loans.

Shopping Ban: Week 5

So, after not buying much for the past several weeks, this week ended up being all about juggling the numbers.  At the beginning of this week, I still had $80 in graduation money that could be spent any way I wanted.  I also had $75 in accumulated ban money that could be spent in thrift stores, consignment stores, on Ebay or on Etsy.  I’m realizing that it’s actually better for me not to let money accumulate like this, because it makes me likely to go over (which I did).  But I was waiting for my first full paycheck, so I couldn’t spend it earlier.  Anyhow, it all works out, and I didn’t go over too badly.  Here’s how I spent it.

While at the beach, I was getting really tired of my Crocs.  I have nothing against Crocs in general, but personally they were making me feel a bit frumpy, and they just weren’t cutting it comfort wise.  I was walking a ton, and I find that my feet tend to get sweaty in Crocs, leading to rubbing and blisters.  My hotel just happened to be within walking distance from John’s Pass, a tourist destination which also happens to be home to a Walking Company store.  I stopped in, feeling extra frumpy in my Crocs and socks (gasp!), and I found a pair of Keen sandals in the most beautiful shade of blue and on sale.  And my boyfriend actually liked the colorway (we don’t often agree on colors).  I decided to try them on, and they fit like a glove.  They were so amazingly comfortable.  So I decided to shell out my graduation money, and I don’t regret it at all.  I literally walked in them all day that day, and I had no blisters when I finally crashed at the end of the evening.  These sandals will be perfect for trips to the beach, Busch Gardens, the park, biking, etc.

keen sarasota

Keen Sarasota in Aqua   $73 at local Walking Company store

(Apparently this was a pretty rare colorway, because I can’t seem to find any in this color online)

So that left me with $7 of graduation money left.  Rewind a few days to a jaunt I made to a new consignment store before my beach trip.  I’m going to a wedding in San Diego in October, and I wanted to get a nice new dress to wear to it.  I originally looked for a new dress that I could buy with graduation money, but couldn’t find anything I really loved at a good price.  I decided to challenge myself to find one second-hand, for under $80.  I visited a new local consignment store, My Mosh Posh, that specializes in carrying high quality designers.  They actually had an authentic Chanel suit! (though at $1000+, it was a bit out of my price range).  I found several dresses that were a little less expensive than that uber couture item, and I bought not only one, but two gorgeous dresses!  For only $40 each, which was not bad at all, considering that they were practically new, and both good brands.  The brown dress will be for the wedding, and I’ll probably wear the navy and white striped dress with a cardigan to the rehearsal dinner.  Both will also be wonderful for work and play. So now for the math: $7 is left of graduation money.  Putting that towards this purchase, there is $73 that will come from ban money, since the dresses were bought at a consignment shop.  That leaves $2 of ban money left.

BCBGMaxAzria

BCBG Max Azria dress   $40 at My Mosh Posh

Ella Moss

Ella Moss Dress = $40 at My Mosh Posh

So with $2 of ban money left, I didn’t go over right?  Well, no, because I bought one more thing.  Going in reverse order again, before I bought any of the above items, I bought a vintage sweater guard on Etsy for $5.50.  This puts me at $3.50 over, so I’ll take that amount out of next week’s ban money, leaving me with $11.50 to spend next week.  Overall, I don’t think that was too bad.  I’m extremely happy with what I bought, and I can tell that this ban is really helping me to only buy things I really love.

vintage sweater guard

Vintage Sweater Guard from Buttermilk Sky $5.50

By the way, this might be just a minor technicallity, but should tax and/or shipping be counted against ban money?  In other words, those dresses were $40 before tax.  Should the amount of the tax be taken out of ban money as well, or is that fussing with the details too much?

Shopping Ban: Week 4

So, I didn’t buy anything this week, mostly because I don’t get my first full paycheck until next Friday, and money is very tight.  Also, I’m going to the beach for four days starting tomorrow, so I want to save my money for enjoying some vacation time.

While not spending money, I have been spending a lot of time thinking about how I want to spend it. Since I still haven’t actually spent any of my weekly ban money, I’ll have a good bit accrued by the time I will actually have money in my bank account to spend ($75 next week, $100 if I can hold off one more).  So, I think I’ll have a little Etsy shopping spree, staying within my ban limits of course.  Here’s some things I’m considering.

A Custom Blouse

dollhouse top

Dollhouse Top  $46

Ureshii

I’m really lacking good solid colored blouses, so getting a custom one in a good color would help a lot.  I particularly love the sleeves on this one.

Brooches

poppy brooch

Poppy Brooch  $16

Sakura Urban

I love how brooches can add an extra pop of color or texture to an outfit.  They’re an affordable way to spice things up.

A Simple, Silver Necklace

thelma

Thelma  $36

Elephantine

I’m really craving a simple, relatively unadorned silver necklace lately.  So much so, that there will probably be an Etsy Love post on them soon.

Long Earrings

wishes

Wishes  $14

Shi Jewels

Because  I’ve realized that my new hair cut looks awesome with long earrings, and also because I don’t have very many.

A Vintage Sweater Guard

sweater guard

Vintage Sweater Guard with Light Blue Stones  $5.50

Buttermilk Sky

Because I love to wear cardigans, and because they’re so classy and Mad Men-esque. (Postscript- Okay, so I actually did buy this one.  I’ll review it on next week’s ban post)

Other things I might like: an amethyst necklace, a statement ring, some silver earrings, a chunky, colorful necklace or this gorgeous sakura necklece.  Because I’m a Microsoft Excel nerd, I think I’ll make a spreadsheet of my Etsy wishes and prices, and then figure out what I can afford.  Or maybe I’ll just get what I’m drawn to that’s within budget.  We’ll see.

Shopping Ban: Week 3

Fluid Movement

Fluid Movement Top in Dark Gray  $58

I still didn’t spend any of my thrifting/Etsy/vintage allowance this week, so I’ll be saving it up and hopefully get some awesomeness on Etsy.  There will probably be a post soon debating what I should get.

Per my shopping ban rules, I am allowed one $50 free day per month, which I can spend wherever I please.  I am also allowed to spend gift money on whatever I please, since it isn’t a part of my budget.  Today, I took my free day for August and went to Anthropologie with Alechia.  And I realized that it’s very hard to find something for under $50 at Anthro.  Since I got some money for my graduation, I could go a little bit above that amount, but I exercised some restraint.

Eventually, I narrowed my choices down to this plum v-neck tank, this wine v-neck blouse, this amazing navy cardi/blazer and the above blouse.  I really, really loved this wool bolero, but it was way out of my price range.  I ended up deciding on the Fluid Movement top in charcoal grey for several reasons.  It looks amazing on me.  It’s in a color that I don’t have a lot of, but would like to have more of.  It’s a solid.  And the main reason: it has a neckline that is very different from many of my other blouses.  I have a lot of v-necks, and while I loved both v-neck blouses, I wanted something different.  The cardi/blazer was amazing as well, so I’m going to wait and see if it goes on sale.

You may notice that the price of this blouse was over $50.  I used $8 of my graduation money to cover the rest, so it’s not cheating.

I felt like I really exercised a lot of restraint while at Anthro.  I would normally have spend $200+ and bought all of the items I loved, but instead I spent some time thinking carefully about what I really needed.  I like the way this shopping ban is making me think.

Related Posts with Thumbnails