As happens at this time of year, I’ve been reflecting a lot on my quality of life and what I can do to improve myself and generally be happier. I’ve never been a big fan of big, difficult New Years Resolutions (Lose 50 pounds! Go to the gym everyday! Handmake my entire wardrobe!) At the same time, general resolutions seem ineffective to me, since it’s too easy to really change nothing (Be less stressed out! Be better with money!).
So with all that in mind, I’ve decided to come up with an attainable 11 in 2011 list. Each item on my list will have at least one specific task assigned with it. I want to be realistic in my goals, but I also want to make sure that I’m accomplishing things I’ve been wanting to. I’ve grouped my goals into categories, since they each fit pretty neatly into certain areas. I’ll be posting about my 11 in 2011 as a series through out the year.
Work
1: Finish my teaching certificate: In the county I work in, you have three years from the point of being hired to complete your teaching certificate. I have one and a half left. All I need to do is take two expensive tests proving that I’m intelligent enough to teach (because apparently my Master’s degree doesn’t do that) and take a course about working with English Speakers of Other Language (ESOL) students. I’m hoping to get all of that out of the way over the summer.
Food
2: Subscribe to local food co-op delivery: There is a hydroponic farm that delivers vegetables to subscribers in my neighborhood once a week. The price is extremely reasonable, all the veggies and fruits are local, and most are organic. Why am I not doing this yet? I’ve been saying I was going to support this local farm for years. It’s time that I get around to it and get some delicious, fresh veggies.
3: Learn how to use kitchen knives properly: I love to cook, but I have no idea what the proper technique for chopping garlic versus carrots versus onions is. Ideally, I’d like to take a class somewhere local. If I can’t find anything, there’s always YouTube. While I’m at it, I should really buy some proper kitchen knives too.
4: Cook one new recipe every month: I love to cook, but I have a habit of falling into a rut of making the same recipes over and over again. At least once a month, I want to change this up and cook something new. I already have several cookbooks, and I can check out more from the library too.
Health
5: Stop procrastinating doctor’s appointments: I finally have health insurance. I’ve had some semi-serious skin problems for the past three months. Why exactly have I not been to see my primary care physician? My concrete goal for 2011: see my dentist, primary care physician, optometrist and gynecologist at least once in the year, and make sure I go more if I need to.
6: Go deeper in my practice of yoga: I’m relatively consistent at practicing once or twice a week. I’d like to try new classes and yoga styles. I want to learn about ayurveda. And I need to become more disciplined in a home practice. Concrete goals: check out books and videos from the library, visit more yoga studios, make an appointment for an ayurvedic consultation at my yoga studio.
Crafty
7: Knit myself a sweater: Despite the fact that I’ve been knitting for almost ten years now, I’ve never knitted a warm, cozy wool pullover. At least not one that doesn’t itch like crazy, or that is something I wouldn’t want to wear in public. I’ve already ordered my yarn for this one
8: Plant a butterfly/bee garden: I’ve had plenty of herb gardens in recent years, but I haven’t planted a real flower garden in a long time. I’d really love to plant a butterfly habitat this year. And it would be a great project to work on with my mom.
9: Take more photos more often, and make them better: I’m capable of taking really good photos – at one time, I was considering it for a career. I need to be better about taking my time to make my shots better. I also want to add to my equipment: get my flash fixed for better indoor shots, get a 50mm lens to be able to carry my camera around, get a nice camera messenger bag.
Life and Money
10: Make a new budget and stick to it: I’m making more money right now than I’ve ever made before in my life. Yet I still feel like I’m living paycheck to paycheck. With my bills, student loan payments, rent, groceries, there really isn’t a lot left over. And I keep overspending every month. I’ve made a new budget spreadsheet, and this year, I’m going to be thorough about keeping up with it. I need to be more disciplined and really think through purchases. I have a bad habit of seeing something and saying “Oh, pretty!”, and buying it because there’s money in my account. Then a week and a half later, I’m counting down to my next paycheck and hoping there’s no purchases that I forgot to take into account. This has to stop.
11: Hang out with In Real Life friends more often: By my nature, I am actually a really shy and sometimes socially insecure person. I’m not very good at keeping up friendships beyond Facebook comments. I’m nervous about asking people to hang out with me, because I’m afraid they won’t want to. I’m anxious about making new friends because I’m afraid they’ll find me annoying. I don’t really have a bff. So my concrete goal in this area: hang out with an In Real Life friend at least once a month. This could be going out for coffee, going thrifting, chatting on Skype. But I need to make a concerted effort. While I love all my blogosphere friends dearly, I need to spend some time with people outside of the interwebs as well.

Great goals. Their concreteness will make it easier to monitor your progress and spur you toward achieving them.
I strongly urge you to take a class in either cooking or knives. Learning how to wield a knife changed my life. Really. It made me confident to attempt things I hadn’t before and stimulated me to cook more often.
The other important thing I encourage you to follow through on is carving out time for real-life social encounters. Meeting a friend for coffee is hugely therapeutic. There’s something vital about personal interactions that can’t be replicated online. It helps us grow, see things differently, and it’s fun, to boot!
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Great goals! It sounds like having this list will help you to be more intentional about each of these things.
I started reading a lot of food blogs a few years back. They have been really inspiring when it comes to using seasonal ingredients. I usually don’t make the recipes, but they give me ideas so I can come up with interesting dinners with a minimal amount of angiush. You might also want to check out some cookbooks from the library so you can flip though them on the weekend.
Also, as a knitter, I’d love to hear what sweater project you have planned!
I love this list! I’m the same way with my resolutions– I figure, if it’s not something I could accomplish tomorrow if I wanted to, it’s not a good resolution, too drastic & unrealistic. Instead, I like just filling my life with new things that I’ve wanted to try in the past but never got around to doing! Good luck with your goals
Mary´s last [type] ..Daily Face
Love your 11 in 2011. I find it so inspiring to read other peoples goals. You goals seem so well thought out and are beautifully articulated. I set goals for the new year, and have no problem canceling them when they don’t work.
As a nurse, I would like to seriously encourage you to follow thru on your health goals. Preventive health is so important! It can save your life, save you money, boost your confidence, and overall improve your health thus increasing happiness (IMHO).
Best of luck!
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Love your goals
XOXO,
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Great goals, and I love your attitude!
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That sounds amazing!
(BTW, what yarn/pattern are you going to go for on your sweater?
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These are great goals for this new year! I especially love your food related goals, and would love to learn more about knives if you care to post as you sharpen your cutting skills (sorry, I couldn’t resist the dorky pun)!
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I think your 11 in 2011 is a fantastic idea. May I borrow it? I wasn’t going to even do resolutions this year but you put them so logically, I want to give it a shot. Good luck on your SAE and Gen Ed. tests. I have taken them and I have edited them – Media should be a piece of cake.
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I never make resolutions, this year I decided to lose weight (which I think you read) but not with ‘new year’ in mind, it is going horribly! lol but what can you do other than keep trying.
I love the idea of picking and DOING some attainable resolutions. I’m trying one myself, and though it is general, and broad (simplify my life), I hope to make great strides in it from here on out.
I’m delighted to see your goals, especially since I share many of them, especially the 11th. I was sort of lamenting to my husband the other day that I don’t have a lot of friends, just acquaintances, and not someone I feel comfortable with just calling on the phone to talk. I finally met the mother of a boy my own boys want to hang out with more and we all went to McDonald’s together on Monday, which is a huge step for me. Turns out we’re probably going to hang out a lot more.
Good for you for putting your resolutions out there!
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